7 Things You Do That Block Your Success and Happiness

7 Things You Do That Block Your Success and Happiness

By John Hagerman Are you totally happy with every aspect of your life? Family, friends, fitness, home, money, spirituality, experiences and work – most of us dream of success and happiness in all these areas when we’re growing up. Unfortunately, by the time we reach the age when we think we should have attained a high level of success and happiness, most of us are disappointed. Our family life isn’t as happy and tranquil as we think it should be. We don’t have the number and quality of friends we want. We don’t have time to get in shape, or enjoy activities we love like fishing, skiing, golf, etc. Our bank accounts are anemic and our spiritual lives are lackluster or non-existent. And work has become a chore where we struggle to keep up, are constantly looking over our shoulder fearing we’ll lose what we have, or, and maybe worst, work has become a place where we find ourselves outwardly successful but inwardly disappointed and empty. Life just isn’t as rewarding, fulfilling or fun as we think it should be, and we don’t know why. If you find yourself anywhere in the above description, then the first place you need to look for explanations is in the mirror. If you don’t have the level of success and happiness you want, the person staring back at you is the person who got you stuck where you’re are. The good news is that whoever is looking back at you is also the person who can change it all for the better. There are 7 things most of us do everyday that...
If You Want to Change the World, Tell a Good Story

If You Want to Change the World, Tell a Good Story

By John Hagerman Anthropologist Joseph Campbell spent his life studying the myths and stories that built our world. He discovered that there really were very few stories and that they kept being told over and over again. He discovered that great stories had certain components in common, 12 to be exact, and if a story had all of these components, it was far more likely to resonate with the people who read, heard or saw the story, than a story that didn’t. Stories that didn’t have all the components rang false and fell flat. Stories that had all the components resonated with their readers because they felt real, authentic and believable. Today, the work of Joseph Campbell has been discovered by marketers and corporations. They’re trying to hit all the right notes to motivate people to buy their products, and its working, sort of. I discovered Joseph Campbell over 30 years ago. The myths he wrote about resonated with me and motivated me to pursue a Bachelor’s Degree in Creative Writing and moved me to get my MFA in Screenwriting from the American Film Institute. At AFI, I learned from the best of the best on modern storytelling, like James Cameron, Bill Moyers, Sidney Poitier, Kirk Douglas, Gary Marshall and Charleton Heston. They fostered a passion in me for discovering great stories and sharing them. I still have a passion for stories. When I speak, I tell stories. When I hear other speakers, I’m listening for their stories and how they resonate in me. When I go to a movie or a play, or watch TV, I rejoice when...